Sex Gets Real 46: A relationship therapist joins us

Gina Senarighi joins us for a compelling interview about relationship counseling and the keys to making relationships work in the long run Holy crap. We have the fabulous and amazing Gina Senarighi from Amplify Happiness Now and Uncommon Love PDX on the show for a killer interview on relationships, kink, poly, jealousy, shame, sex, and all the things she sees …

Sex Gets Real 42: BDSM classes, dildo etiquette, and porn trends

Dildo etiquette, cock confidence, and a sweepstakes to win a prize in celebration of our one-year anniversary! Dylan talks about being a total sexist at a motorcycle show. A listener wants to know where to go for classes on sex and BDSM. We suggest starting with Kink Academy and their 1,500 videos with some of the best sex and kink …

The Power of Words: A Missive for Sexperts, Sex Therapists, & Educators

Disclaimer: I realize that not all sex therapists, sex educators, sex workers, or sex professionals want to be inclusive and accepting. If that is you, I honor your path and encourage you to stop reading. This article isn’t for you. I’ll admit that I struggle to use inclusive language sometimes. Being deliberate in my word choices can feel like a …

Keeping sex fun (hint: when’s the last time you smiled in bed?)

When was the last time you laughed in the middle of sex? Genuinely, honestly laughed? Last week, my partner and I were deep in a rope bondage scene – my ankles were bound in rope cuffs, I was nearly immobilized, and things were intense and serious. Growls and gasps and grunts abounded. And then…something completely unexpected happened – one of our …