Sex Gets Real 108: Horrible oral from a clueless husband

Masturbation May is in full swing, so pop over to our exclusive sale with podcast-approved toys and treat yourself to something deliciously naughty. This week I’m chatting with Victoria Rosa, and we dive into her experiences with tantra and sacred spot massage. Victoria was a part of the Explore More Summit, and she’s absolutely divine when it comes to jealousy …

Sex Gets Real 103: In love BEFORE the sex

What do you do if you’re in love before you have sex? Comedian and 4-Play Baltimore host, Prescott Gaylord, joins us for the first of two HIQIs. First, we hear from Sophie about college hook-ups and how she worked all her FWBs on campus. Then, Katie writes in because she is about to have sex with her girlfriend of one …

Sex Gets Real 100: HUGE ANNOUNCEMENT, threesomes, unicorns, and butt stuff

Did you hear the news? Wow. 100 episodes. 100 episodes of Sex Gets Real. What an amazing 2+ years it’s been. And it also seems appropriate that today is the day Dylan is announcing she’s leaving the show. As sad as Dawn is about the news, Dylan has an opportunity that is amazing and something she’s been wanting for a …

Sex Gets Real 95: Practicing butt stuff

Butt stuff. It’s all about the butt. Over 3,500 people turned in for the Explore More Summit at exploremoresummit.com. Hundreds of reviews poured in and people loved it. If you want to check out the 30 interviews for yourself, you can still buy them for just over $1 per talk. A listener needs advice on how to get started with …

Sex Gets Real 89: Butt sex and the REAL mess

Butts get real A listener wants us to be really real. Just how messy is anal play? She wants to try it, but she’s psyched herself out over the poop. That sends us off on a bender on all things butts – from hair to the doorbell technique to Dylan getting REALLY excited about all the things she likes in …

Sex Gets Real 88: Stoya rape & Bondage Bands

Straight guys having sexing with straight guys? We want to start the episode by saying that we stand in solidarity with Stoya after she named James Deen as her rapist. It takes tremendous courage to speak up, especially when the person you’re naming is so popular and beloved. Let’s talk about the psychology of victim blaming. Let’s also talk about …

Sex Gets Real 87: STI stigma and poly feels

Sex. The scariest thing in the world? Dawn really loved this conversation about STI stigma. A recent article in The Atlantic (link below in the show notes) talked about some research findings that show people are terrified of sex. People judge someone more harshly for transmitting a mild case of curable chlamydia than killing someone with swine flu. Why? Because …

Sex Gets Real 86: Self-sucking and vag superpowers for evil

Rhonda Rousey versus Dawn Serra. We’re finally back on track after losing some episodes a few weeks back. We revisit a listener email about self-sucking. Should he introduce his talent to his wife? The thought kind of turns him on. Then, Dawn and Dylan talk about masturbation being a sin along with a new superpower: zombiefying vagina goo. Scary stuff. …

Sex Gets Real 85: Paris attacks & trapped in a marriage

A kid on a bus does hand motions at Dawn that get her real worked up. Dawn & Dylan take a moment to talk about the Paris attacks, plus the lack of visibility on attacks in Beirut, Baghdad, and when the violence is against people of color. We wish peace for all us, but if we want human rights to …

Sex Gets Real 82: Consent & a special needs child

The accidental HIQI. Dawn had a shitty week. Not only was she battling Strep, but she fried her laptop and lost this week’s episode. So, we’re doing a HIQI in place of our longer episode and we’ll be back on track in 2 weeks. So, what are we talking about this week besides Dylan’s vacation to Hawaii? Well, a listener, …