How much sex should you be having?
More sex? Less sex? How much sex should you have if you want a healthy, thriving relationship? The answer may surprise you.
Sex Gets Real 72: Feminista Jones
It’s about to get super fierce and very real. We are so excited to have the powerful, the fabulous, the game-changing Feminista Jones on with us this week. We talk about sex-positive feminism, BDSM, Dom/sub dynamics, how the term vanilla has become a slur, street harassment, birth control, how sex and body autonomy are the key to liberation and freedom …
Do you ever feel like sex is overrated?
Things are not how you imagined they’d be in bed. You’d go so far as to say sex is overrated. Here’s a new way to think about sex that might help.
This is a story about healing
Sometimes healing trauma can take us amazing and unexpected places. What happened when I saw a sacred intimate (somatic sex educator) for healing work.
Sex Gets Real 70: Erogenous zones & pegging famous guys
From famous men who have been pegged to erogenous zones and beyond, it’s a packed show. This week is packed full of good random stuff. We talk about a fun article pontificating which famous fictional men have been pegged. Then we explore erogenous zones and where on our bodies we like sensual touch. A listener writes in with a sexy …
Sex Gets Real 69: Mutual masturbation
Did someone say 69? Yes! It’s our 69th episode! Two listeners write in with sexy stories. Plus, there’s a new Johns Hopkins study showing men who are confident and empathetic (sensitive) have more satisfying sex. Boom! And of course, we have to get our hands dirty by talking about the beauty and pleasure of mutual masturbation. Seriously, it’s one of …
I don’t want sex as much as I used to. How do I get that spark back?
I can remember lying in bed at night wondering if something was wrong with me. I had no desire to have sex with my partner at the time, and while the sex was OK when we did have it, it was largely non-existent. In fact, we fought about it quite a lot. I felt sad, frustrated, and even a little …
Sex Gets Real 68: Kate McCombs on sex and communication
Kate McCombs on all things sex and communication. We have the amazing Kate McCombs on the show today. Sex and communication are her bread and butter. She is incredibly skilled at helping people develop communication skills in their relationships, so that they can have better sex. From empathy to kangaroo vaginas to blowjobs with a cold rock on your anus, …
Sex Gets Real 67: Hitachi Magic Wand and swinging vs poly
A Hitachi Magic Wand story plus swinging vs. poly. Interested in attending Dawn’s live Q&A all about relationships on Thursday, July 16th? Pop on over and sign-up. She’d love to have some listeners in the audience. Dawn got herself a new rechargeable Hitachi Magic Wand. She’s been experimenting and had an intense new experience that took her by surprise. And …
Are you destroying trust and intimacy with these tiny reactions?
It’s confession time again. In my two previous relationships, I was a master microaggressor. I didn’t know it at the time – in fact, I felt quite justified and righteous in how I handled our disagreements and disappointments. I was in the right, after all. Looking back, I see now how damaging those little looks, eye rolls, & tiny sarcastic remarks were …