Sex Gets Real 185: Hookups with herpes, chastity belt fantasies, & raising sex positive kids

Your questions have been pouring in. And of course, if you want to practice being the sexpert, folks who support the show on Patreon at $5 get to offer their advice for the show, too. Or, support at $3 per month for weekly bonus content – it’s a steal! So, where are we going this week? Emma has been seeing …

Sex Gets Real 184: Afrosexology on Black pleasure, masturbation, & radical twerking

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Sex Gets Real 183: Housework & resentment, chronic cheating, & Rare Bird Lit

Welcome to this week’s show! We’re talking books, housework & resentment, and cheating. Oh, and I just started watching Big Mouth on Netflix which is an absurd, bizarre cartoon all about going through puberty. You might want to check it out. Cadessa wrote in about her non-existent sex life and how listening to the show changed everything. Sarah has a …

Sex Gets Real 182: Masochism, virginity, low self-esteem, & permission slips

Hello, from New Orleans! Hurricane Nate meant I was stuck in Louisiana for an extra day, but it also meant more time at SisterSong’s “Let’s Talk About Sex” conference. I share a little about what that conference brought up for me and then…it’s your questions and my answers. You can see some of the videos from the conference at the …

Sex Gets Real 179: Flogging & spanking, a marriage-ruining boot fetish, & loneliness

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Sex Gets Real 175: Sensual BDSM porn, inconsistent sex, & inorgasmic partners

Guess what? LOLA is sponsoring this week’s episode. You can get pads, tampons, and liners delivered to you, via their rad subscription service, at 60% off your first order when you subscribe. Just use promo code SGR when you visit mylola.com and get started. This week it’s you and me and all your emails. Let’s dive in. Ariyanna wrote in …

Sex Gets Real 170: Diary of a Rope Slut with Emily Bingham

I know tons of you are either kink lovers or kink curious, so I have a feeling you’re going to enjoy this chat with rope expert and rope love Emily Bingham. She recently published an erotic memoir all about her kinky, erotic bondage adventures. It is SUPER hot. So in this episode we talk about how she got into rope, …

Sex Gets Real 169: Cheating & healing, a wife who hates come, & age differences

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Sex Gets Real 168: Amarna Miller on ethical porn, feminism, & polyamory

Love the show? Well, Patreons who support at the $3 level and above get exclusive weekly bonus content you can’t find ANYWHERE else. Join in the fun at patreon.com/sgrpodcast As for this week’s episode? Amarna Miller is here and we talk all about ethical porn and why it’s different from feminist porn, why she feels so committed to doing mainstream pornography, …

Sex Gets Real 167: Wendy Strgar on passion in monogamy, lube, & sexual fantasies

Guess what? Your support means the world to me. And now you can throw a few bucks my way on Patreon. From $1 and up, every single one matters to me. For exclusive weekly bonus content you can’t find anywhere else, support at just $3 per month. Join the fun at patreon.com/sgrpodcast Whew! Let’s dive into this week’s episode because Wendy …