Sex Gets Real 222: Sarah Thompson on body trust, pleasure, and non-binary identity

Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Well, Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is now available on demand. Grab your spot today.  Body trust, queer identity, pleasure in a …

Sex Gets Real 221: Andy Izenson on alternative justice, resilient relationships, & masculinity

Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Well, Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is now available on demand. Grab your spot today.  Radical love, resilient community, and never being …

Sex Gets Real 220: Body trust. Trans sex woes. Self-harm scars.

Are you ready to sign up for Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop? Grab your spot today for just $37. Ten lessons, ten worksheets, a lifetime of shifting how you feel about boundaries. A passionate lover. Body trust. Trans sex woes. Self-harm scars. Hello from Portland! I am here for BeNourished’s Reclaiming Body Trust Intensive and it is hitting me …

Sex Gets Real 219: Painful anal, a husband who says she’s “too fat”, & confronting resentment

Are you ready to sign up for Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop? Grab your spot today for just $37. Ten lessons, ten worksheets, a lifetime of shifting how you feel about boundaries. Intersex-inclusive language. Resentment in relationships. Questions from YOU! I am loving answering your questions this summer, and I’m so glad I’m getting a chance to get caught …

Sex Gets Real 218: Tender masculinity, condom expiration dates, & Dommes who receive

Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is now available on demand. Grab your spot today for just $37. Ten lessons, ten worksheets, a lifetime …

Sex Gets Real 217: Nadine Thornhill on saving comprehensive sex education

Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Well, Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is now available on demand. Grab your spot today.  Nadine is saving comprehensive sex ed Ontario …

Sex Gets Real 216: Boring sex, calling masturbation cheating, & stolen sex toys

Heard about it on the show? The Sex Map game is just $9 and can be purchased here. Your questions. Answered. Katie has a new fat fling. She really likes him, but he talks about diets and weight loss a lot. She’s been learning about diet culture, health at every size, and fact activism, so she needs help on how to …

Sex Gets Real 215: Shadeen Francis on trust, honesty, & cheating

Do you struggle to say no without over-explaining? Do you feel hurt when people you love set boundaries that disappoint you? Are you looking for ways to stop apologizing and to start taking up more space? Well, Take Up Space, my online boundaries workshop, is releasing soon. Grab your spot today.  What if honesty isn’t the best policy for rebuilding …

Sex Gets Real 214: Foot fetish, a husband who refuses sex, & tell tale orgasm signs

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Sex Gets Real 213: Is porn destroying this relationship? Plus gender roles, sex toys, & NRE.

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