Sex Gets Real 185: Hookups with herpes, chastity belt fantasies, & raising sex positive kids

Your questions have been pouring in. And of course, if you want to practice being the sexpert, folks who support the show on Patreon at $5 get to offer their advice for the show, too. Or, support at $3 per month for weekly bonus content – it’s a steal! So, where are we going this week? Emma has been seeing …

Sex Gets Real 184: Afrosexology on Black pleasure, masturbation, & radical twerking

Love the show? Now you can support it on Patreon. For $3 per month, you’ll get weekly bonus content and for $5 per month you can help me answer listener questions! I am absolutely in love with this week’s chat with Dalychia and Rafaella from Afrosexology. We talk about their mission to bring sexual liberation and agency to the Black …

Sex Gets Real 183: Housework & resentment, chronic cheating, & Rare Bird Lit

Welcome to this week’s show! We’re talking books, housework & resentment, and cheating. Oh, and I just started watching Big Mouth on Netflix which is an absurd, bizarre cartoon all about going through puberty. You might want to check it out. Cadessa wrote in about her non-existent sex life and how listening to the show changed everything. Sarah has a …

Sex Gets Real 182: Masochism, virginity, low self-esteem, & permission slips

Hello, from New Orleans! Hurricane Nate meant I was stuck in Louisiana for an extra day, but it also meant more time at SisterSong’s “Let’s Talk About Sex” conference. I share a little about what that conference brought up for me and then…it’s your questions and my answers. You can see some of the videos from the conference at the …

Sex Gets Real 179: Flogging & spanking, a marriage-ruining boot fetish, & loneliness

Guess what? LOLA is sponsoring this week’s episode. You can get pads, tampons, and liners delivered to you, via their rad subscription service, at 60% off your first order when you subscribe. Just use promo code SGR when you visit mylola.com and get started. This week it’s you and me and all your emails. But before I answer your questions, …